I know what you mean but according to the thousands upon thousands of so called average frustrated chumps who complain in their seduction forums about getting rejected and shot down by women, these ice breakers dont work 90% of the time to generate enough attraction to keep these women and those who did have the qualities I have mentioned above.

There is this show in VH1 called the pickup artist and the finalist who won the game was shown talking to an attractive woman using the routines taught to him and she said something like "Its not about what you say, its about how you look like."

Look I know it sounds shallow but that's the way it works to attract women but to keep them is another story.

You cannot be "the best version of yourself" if clearly from the start the book taught the readers to use ice breakers when the truth is men should not spit game on women unless they chose him first.

The reason is simple, so that both parties wont waste time and energy on people they dont want.

Passion is anger and love combined. So if it looks angry, give it some love!