tebop opened this issue on May 05, 2011 ยท 137 posts
scanmead posted Sat, 07 May 2011 at 1:40 PM
I have utterly no interest in reading material on this subject. I have utterly no interest in being "picked up", or in "picking up" anyone, or any pop-psychology explanation of why I react the way I do. Simple: pay me a backhanded compliment, and you're an instant bore. Whatever happened to "May I buy you a drink?", "Would you like to dance?", "Would you like to go to dinner?" ???
For gosh sakes, discuss something that doesn't make the girl's eyes roll back in her head. Whether it's football, theoretical physics, or Lady Gaga, find out what interests her, then find a common ground.