Quote - When starting a relationship with one of the Poser Not We (a non-Poser type person), should you tell them about your Poser habit?  Or should it be hidden until the relationship is fairly secure, like an odd sexual quirk or strange bathroom habits, or an off-putting blemish in a troubling location?  (Note: It should not be assumed that Cage necessarily has any of these things.  Ahem.)

I find that telling her about it is easy if you wait until she has her clothes off, so don't rush it, wait at least wait an hour or two after you first meet. Then you can compliment her at the same time by saying things like "You have pretty armpits, nice and low" or "Your toes are normal length, thank heavens for that". And my favorite one "You're really supple, Vicky can't do that without her hips going all weird".