Quote - Maybe my experience isn't so helpful because I've never been on the lookout for a GF and I've never used a line in my life.  Whenever I got together with someone it's always been an accident of circumstance, a chance meeting or a friendship that went further than expected.  Perhaps that's why I've been so lucky; I never acted like a predator.

 

And that is exactly what makes you "some kind of irresistable sex god."

Most women like normal, average guys who don't try too hard to impress and don't come off as something they aren't. 

 

Quote -My selection process would probably be different from most guys, too.  I'm not in the least bit attracted to stupid people.  Women who are pretty but dumb are a big no-no for me.  Women who are pretty and very smart are a big turn on, though.  I have to respect someone as an equal first and foremost.

 

That's how I feel about guys!

Physically I seem to gravitate to tall men with dark hair and dark eyes.  After that it's all about the brains!

I have a pretty high IQ and I look for a guy who typically has an IQ higher than mine. One that can not only carry on a deep conversation, but also one that can have a conversation that is completely nonsensical and goofy!

The last guy I had a long term relationship with was like that, and the only part of the relationship I miss is our conversations. He was amazing to talk with, whether it was a seriously deep conversation, or just something whimsical.

 

Quote - In any event, just making friends is a lot of fun; it doesn't have to lead to anything more.  If it does, that's a plus.

Probably the best advice given in this thread.

 

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi