well, I have some technical skills with Poser, so where are all the admiring womens ?  I has none :(

There are all sorts of women , and all sorts of men.  The trick is (for a man)  in finding a woman who finds you attractive for whatever reason, and finding one who you like as well. 

Show women your art, its a good talking point, just dont how the hardcore porn at the start.  Do some nice pictures , and work towards the porn.

I agree with Gareee, its unlikely a woman will knock on your door, give you a big wet kiss with tongue, and demand to see your artwork.  You need to get out and mix with people even if its just doing laundry and grocery shopping.

Borrow a dog if your area has dog parks, some women love dogs. Try a dance class, there may be single women who need partners to learn to waltz.