"Women only like guys who are experts at their hobby?"

 

Wow man! Where do you GET this stuff? All my hobbies have ever gotten me are needy freeloaders who want shit for free. Yeah sure, the occassional oohs! or ahhs! (makes jerk off motion with hand) but seriously, what Boni just said I couldn't say any better. As for whether or not a woman likes what you do as a hobby, meh... I've never met one who cared enough either way to affect our relationship.

Case in point, my (seriously outdated)gallery shows that I'm really good with pencil and paper. The number of women I have attracted with this talent? Zero!

My musical skills include being able to play VanHalen's "Eruption" solo on an 8 string guitar. The number of women who have shown any real interest in this? Yup, zero!

I used to play in a rock band for over 2 years and then I DJed a lot in various dance clubs. Again, the number of women who farted sideways to a dime over it? Nada!

What does get a woman's attention for me is, having confidence in myself and (this is important) NOT bragging about what I can do.

Now, (somebody already said this)using your hobbies to build your confidence up for real life? This can definitely work! As for women, they will notice the confidence and like that but, they really won't care about where you got the confidence from.

Good luck!

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