Quote - I'm listening to what you guys say.

 

Then participate!!!!!!!!!!

Sitting on the sidelines "listening" or on a forum it's called "lurking", isn't going to do you any good.

Instead of coming here and posting Off Topic questions and then sitting back doing nothing, start participating in discussions, especially if it's a thread that you started!

I'm sure you can see how it would come across to people that you are trolling if you just come here and post Off Topic  questions and then seem to vanish from the topic?  If you don't see, I'm telling you that it does.

Participating will get you used to interacting, at least in a text media,  with different people.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi