I think this thread should be in the Poser forum where people can see it. Not many come to this forum, or at least they don't post in it if they do come.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi