I feel the same too.  I think it is caused by the technical stuff.  It limits the creativity.  If all I want is a good rendered picture, other software can do it too.  I'm still struggling in making clothing that "works"

I gave up on Victoria 4 as well, I paid for it when it is not free!  All I want is something that my laptop can handle.  I've seen some amazing artworks that done in the past with the computers that are not as fast as the one I have. 

The free contents are the main reason for me to stay with Poser/DAZ Studio.  I do not have as many outfits as Victoria 4 (just counted the free contents) LOL!

Hopefully, I will come back with some new stuff for Antonia when I recovered.