Gee , advice for a married woman.. nope none.  I would have suggested Men, but you have one and he might not like you collecting others. Wild monkey sex would be an option but you might do that anyway .  I suppose that leaves typical womanish stuff , like knitting, crochet or cooking.  I hear that crocheting bottle covers that look like poodles is a dying art, perhaps you could revive it ?

 

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