Hi Laurie, I try the settings and it all works wonderfully !

And now, anyother big issue...... and I'm desperate and hope someone can help.

I added a headdress on the head and test the simulation ( I removed the sim for the rope) and it work fine but when I close the scene file , the next time I open the scene file ..... the head dress become distorted !! ( please see attached image )

Please help !