Quote - This is just a guess and not to diagnose you, only to educate. So far the bottom line of everything I learned from this book is simple:  

"Its wonderful who you are regardless what order your were born. Everything that hurt you or you did wrong or you are not pleased about yourself is NOT YOUR FAULT and since its not your fault, its reasonable to forgive youself."

That just convinced me not to buy the book.  Do you agree with that understanding, or is it just what you took away after reading the book?