SamTherapy opened this issue on Sep 17, 2012 · 108 posts
moriador posted Wed, 19 September 2012 at 8:21 AM
Quote - I wonder if people are more inclined to talk to you on the forums if your avatar is beautiful?
Hmm? what? oh, just thinking out loud again.
I don't think so. Though I do think we make assumptions about the gender of the person based on name and gender. Until recently, and before I put up an avatar, people assumed I was male.
Quote - Had a suit call me a long haired white trash tattooed hippie that belong in prison.
I knew he was trying to insult me ,but I took it as a complement comming from the likes of him.suits are ploitishens ,bankers ,mob etc etc .when I see someone in a suit all I see is
a well dressed demon.suits make the poles ,maps.
I've known some girls ,they called me a lot of things mostly crasy, but good looking was never one of them.But I've never had any probleams getting a girl friend.
You can be ugly as me but if your confident and determined ,get any girl you want.One would think in a strip bar the prettiest girl would make the most.but no.
The coolest girls make the most.
The girls that think there something with there fake atitudes .Go home broke
Well, they judge you for not wearing a suit; you judge them for wearing a suit. I don't see a big difference. Still judging people by what they wear.
My husband is one of the most liberal minded, compassionate, and non-judgmental people I know, and he was raised by hippie farmers on Saltspring Island. But he is required to wear a suit for his job and he wears a military haircut because he doesn't care enough about making a statement with his appearnce to bother growing his hair. No doubt you'd immediately assume he wasn't worth your time, which would be sad, because he wouldn't assume the same about you.
As for pretty girls in strip bars... I thought the ones that made the most were the ones most willing to grind their crotches in people's faces. In other words: the skankiest. The pretty girls probably aren't as willing to do it. Why? Because outside, in the rest of their lives, they don't have to. They're not used to it. The ugly ones have to be skanky all the time to get attention. They're experts. ;)
Quote - *"I wonder if people are more inclined to talk to you on the forums if your avatar is beautiful?" *
Ah, so that's why people ignore me.
LOL. I don't. Does that count? :)
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