In trying to keep an open mind. And I wanted to hear both sides of this issue. I visited the PFO and found where Willow had this to say. "Any members coming here to promote fund raising of an obvious self serving purpose will be banned and NEVER allowed back. You want to help - Make the check payable to Red Cross. I am disgusted at those wanting to make a profit from this tragedy. This is not open for discussion, I will close this statement - grief earns a far different direction then this." So it appears that Willow is also a flaming ass hole. I would consider it an honor too be banned from that place. I won't be going back again, EVER!