I have to make the map then I will try it... I already made the low res, I basically just opened the original project file and exported just the dress then I converted it to tris and UVmapped it in Zbrush.

I ran a sim to see how it worked and so far it works way better cause I don't have to worry about detail... So I think the map solution is the best one so far (for this particular project) so thanks heddheld