I had to google Essex girls.   If what I read about definition of Essex girl is correct, this is by far the most inaccurate description of the women portrayed in my posting.  Believe it or not these "Southern women" are mirrors of very real, loving and loveable, down to earth, moms, grandmothers, fun loving, opinionated, rulers of the roost, southern ladies.  

I'd be curious to view some videos of women and their "communication" skills from other parts of this planet.  When I think of Brits, my impression is Hyacynth character on "Keeping Up Appearances".  Correct me please!

I'm waiting for tjohn to jump into this discussion.  He is from Tennessee I believe.  He will confirm what I say.