That holding picture trick is mostly used by Russian scammers.

No- No-, absolutely insist on a one-to-one video chat with sound.

Hi resolution, purpose taken pictures that have no specular at all, is a MUST.
iF she does not agree to that? Forget the whole thing.

You'd be in trouble before you know what came over you.

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