Right by way of an apology to rendo, and to help out anyone else having the issue.

This is where you change the profile in ACR, this is what I had not changed after upgrade.  Click the profile hyperlink in ACR marked in red.  And choose the ICC profile from the list it is the last one at the bottom.  Now your checkmark at save as will be you selected profile.  But be aware that if you print directly from within photoshop, you'll need to change this back to 1998.  1966 is for web display 1998 for printing.

 

Thanks to 3D guys eagle eye :)