As a new guy here I read this thread with interest.

There seems to be a lot of bubbling discontent here. It's like you are all cleaning up after the remains of a virtual massacre. But don't worry all forums go through the same processes. It's hard to weed out the troublemakers before you start  losing too many of the valiant few. Mind  you I'd love to get Carrara and Poser to talk, but after TrekkieGirls comments I am not game to ask for hints here :)