I'm at a loss as to how to help you. 

No matter what anyone suggests, you have a negative answer. 

If you know anything about women's hairstlyes (since that seems to be what you want), you would know that there are classic hair styles.  Ponytails, braids, french braids, ect.  Hairstylists often go for what they call the "modern take on the classic hairstyle".  Have you ever purchased a hair style magazine?  Not a fashion magazine but a magazine devoted to just hairstyles?  Have you ever gone into a high end salon and looked through either their style books (or if they are really high end their digital books)?  Just about any style you can imagine (and even some you can't) can be found in them.  My stylist once told me that the main limit to any particular style is how much time, effort and money a person wants to put into maintaining that style. 

In the end you are left with a couple of choices: if you can't find a style that fits your needs, learn to paint hair in postwork.  If you find a hair that fits your needs but the texture doesn't, fix it in postwork or find an extension pack that has the textures you want.  If you have a style but it lacks the morphs you want, learn to use magnets or the morph brush to give you the morphs you want.  Learn how to create transmaps and textures to give you textures and styles to "fix" the styles you already have.  Or, learn to model your own hair and you can then have whatever style you want whatever way you want.

Sorry but I have no other answers for you.