think your being to hard on blender ;-)

its workflow is odd but once your used to it ! its pretty awesome

hardest thing for me was using both hands all the time (thank god I stopped smoking lol )

all the useful shortcuts are under left hand (so that X is well handy)

want to work on an edge or a face or .. just ctrl+E,F,V (or W if not sure )

want the fancy multiselect or multiwidget (like Hex) just shift select them on menu bar

 

have fun

ps not knocking wings used it for a while its a nice solid modeler, just not enough shorcuts