Calm down. You're not going to achieve anything while angry - it will blind you to the solution. Take a breath, step back for a minute and think about the steps you're using that may be causing the issue.

Sorry, should have said, What morph option are you trying to load - a Full Body Morph or an Object Morph (they are different)

Can you state repeatable steps so that we can spot where you're going wrong

If not (or in addition to that) can you post images to illustrate the problem

refer back to step 1.