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Right now I am still at a point of thinking that this situations is far to the right at present, and the middle would be a much better place.  

I agree completely - in principal. And mostly in practice. But I realize I'm not privy to all the behind-the-scenes stuff that goes on.

Quote - However I am actively looking for some error in my thought process.  It's a more personally productive approach to look for some way that I can improve rather than looking for flaws with another in any regard.

Yes. It's taken me a long time to learn this (and it's hard to put into practice), but yes indeed. You can't change other people. But you can hope that over time you'll be able to come to a mutually acceptable arrangement. In the meantime, I guess, you've got to decide if the things you don't like about a situation are outweighed by the things you do like.

Still, we always have this desire to improve things if we see ways we think they can be improved, don't we?

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