Quote - .... but I think it is time for most figure creators to drop the "theroretical correct references", and to look at a real woman in real life.

Tony, I think you are (almost) alone in that respect. Most users want a pretty figure which looks real in their (not very accurate) mind. 

And even if you want to create a realistic figure - how should it look like? There is so much diversity among humans that whatever you make, it won't be acceptable for the majority of the potential users.