Well, I've had a fair few scuffs with Vilters myself, and now after seeing it happen to others I think I see the problem:

"You delete all lights.
And your hair glows?
What does that tell you?"

Better version:

"You delete all lights.
And your hair glows?
What does that tell you? "

Try using a bloody smiley now and then, Vilters, it costs nothing and people won't misinterpret you.  It's obvious you wanted to help or you wouldn't have bothered explaining things, but some ways of wording demand a smiley to confirm the true intention.

I'm giving you a smiley so that you take my post the right way
That said, I should really have posted an ass-kicking smiley but they don't have one here *