Cin- opened this issue on Oct 01, 2001 ยท 16 posts
Bia posted Tue, 02 October 2001 at 9:55 AM
I like when people give constructive crits. But it rarely happens. it's kind of disappointing for me. I don't mind the "cool Pic" thing, if that's all someone can come up with...but... I prefer something more substantial LOL! I like when peopel tell me what it makes them think of, but I don't like when people tell me what they "know" I am thinking. So, everyone I guess will like things or not that people say. I got very upset once by a poster (somewhere else) commenting on a picture about a certain subject. In this picture, I was leaving very much a feeling of 'what happened before this shot, what will happen after this shot' kind of thing. Someone told me that the picture was not an accurate portrayal of the situation. He needed more to feed his imagination. For, me, that is not a valid comment. So, what I am trying to say is that everyone will have comments they like and dislike for whatever reason...it's too simplistic, it's too psychological, it's not this or that. I think that's why people don't say more than "cool pic". They don't really know what will offend in this form of communication. people who know me well, know what they can and cannot say to me (normally just about anything)without/with an arguement (I actually like arguement but some people mistake it for anger if they don't know you) but those who don't know me, might be hesitant. And...that's...OK! LOL!!!