THANKS TETSUTORA AND KAZAM561!!  That's the very first compliment I ever got since this thread.  All the rest are critics or talking about other subjects MAJOR SIGH  I seriously wondered if I was even going in the right direction or not, NO ONE WAS TELLING ME!  WTF???  All everyone was talking about was what I was doing wrong, what looked bad.. etc or blender and bump/displacement stuff, I never knew if I was going in a good direction till you two told me.  Thanks!

Anyways, working on bump textures, and thanks AmbientShade for the magnets instruction, and Tetsutora for the link, gonna have a play with tonight :)

sigh did I only ask for critics?  Shame on me lol, hopefully people will start saying "hey, now she's looking nice, you're going in the right direction" :) Critics make you learn, sure, but COMPLIMENTS AND ENCOURAGEMENTS make you go further.  Am I correct?