Sounds like you're lucky then RorrKonn, to be honest I get sick of seeing those Praying Mantis style women, that's one of the reasons I prefer the women from the 60's and 70's porno magazines, they just look way sexier to me.  It's the hair and makeup as well, obviously, but today, it all looks and feels too cold and blatant rather than warm and erotic.

Anyway, regards your female mesh, here's a suggestion for you, and if you try it, I promise you'll be glad you did :

• Make a backup copy of your mesh.
• Working on the backup, take a brush that is nearly the same size as her upper arm.
• Everywhere there is a muscle or bone, just brush it in very roughly, don't worry about how good it looks, just do it like you're in a hurry.
• Your woman should have lots of horrible bulges all over her body by now.
• Now, set the brush to around the size of her head, and set it to smoothing mode.
• Set so that it only smooths slightly on each stroke.
• Use this smoothing brush all over the figure until the bulges you created have blended softly into the bulges next to them.

Basically, if you see a sharp edge on your figure, you failed, and your woman is full of sharp edges right now.  Remember that skin is covering the muscles beneath it, and skin doesn't suck into the voids between muscles enough to give it such a sharp edge.  The same could be said for that male mesh you made, your male mesh is one of the best male meshes I've seen, he actually looks like a male and doesn't look gay like the DAZ males do.  If you were to go over him with the smoothing brush using the same technique described for the female, it would look pretty damn impressive.

You're very detail orientated and seem to be afraid of the smoothing brush, which is just crazy, cause it's essential.
Relax and smooth things off a bit ;-)