Ok, aside from being lectured about the apparent lack of political correctness in my question and concept, and the attempt to focus my attention on the currently "accepted norms," and having raised four daughters and working with five granddaughters, I am going to assume (oooohhh, there's another not politically correct term!) that the answer is no, no one has such a chart or reference piece.  And yes, I understand about the whole bulimia/self image/body control issue.

Yes, I'm old enough that Mansfield too much and Monroe was more pleasing to my eye.

And, out of curiosity, how did my thread and question get hijacked and turned into a flame war on a piece of commercials software?    Oh, and the software seems to be exactly what I was wondering about, so thanks for the tip on it.