@Glmmermaid
That's exactly what I meant, doesn't make sense to me, but then again, most of my life my living arrangements means I never get a chance to find out!

But men in relationships often claim they don't understand women, I see it all the time.  And when I finally get my own pad, I think women are going to be alien to me (I think I'm in for a bit of a shock and a reality check).  The only consolation I have for myself, is that I've managed without a partner all this time, so I'm in no hurry, she'd have to be as weird as I am for me to have any interest in her anyway!  One of the things I hate about modern women, is that most of them are boring, rat-race minded career women, and I've got as much interest in career women (or the rat-race) as a cat has in swimming the Atlantic!

Anyway ... this is very OT ...