Thanks for the change on the Gravity number. It will help solve a lot of confusion for new users.

As for the glue option, I clearly need to work with this to get the results I'm trying to achieve. My question here though is: Can I save the settings on a piece of clothing after I have setup what is 'glued'? I'd hate to have to re-do that work every time I added that cloth. A preset that I can save for it would be awesome. One of the things I was to use dynamics on besides dresses is coats and jackets. I don't mind shirts or tight pants conforming, but jackets and lose clothing should always flow. For a large animation project, having to glue an item to a model over and over again each time you want to re-do the animation sequence could really take up a lot of time. Saving a preset for a specific clothing item would be very helpful here so you can just load it each time, or even better, the VWD app can remember it.

As for the mass, I think your solution will work fine. It's clear you have this well thought out. It's just a matter of us understanding it enough to use it. I'll get there. Just takes me some time.