Ok guys, I done suckered myself to learn how to make dynamic hairs (and it's fun lol),

Its looking fine, you are correct that it looks a bit like she is loosing hair :D but taking into consideration how difficult it is to work with, meaning not just slapping on the hair, but actually make it look like something is very hard, I tried it as well but gave up, tried in in 3ds max as well and its just as hard to make anything there as in Poser.

Wish someone could develop some easy to use dynamic hair software, not just for simulating hair, but to style is as well, but seems to me like there are not really any software out there able to do that.