honestly? i feel as if there have been very mixed messages from posts by staff and through messages from staff... i was told that the idea of 'if you don't have anything positive to say, then don't say anything' is a part of this latest TOS update, but am now being told that i can still express my opinions and disagree. might seem like i'm splitting hairs, but whenst i'm told that something i said in a forum was hurtful and negative even though i expressly posted in my comment, both at the start and then at the end that that was not my intent, i find it all a little, um... i'll choose the word confusing... [shrug]

as i said above, hopefully a true balance can be found here on this site... :)

time will out...