"I don't get it. Lol. Sorry."

I do get it. There's nothing wrong with asking for help in something we find hard (even for much simpler things than a good pose) and everything right about Kazam's response. That I can respect.

"If I were a shadow, I know I wouldn't like to be half of what I should be."
Mr Otsuka, the old black tomcat in Kafka on the Shore (Haruki Murakami)