The new color scheme is a HUGE improvement! Happy! Thanks much!

The 'ticked X' and selected 'Dot' could be a tad brighter to be more obvious.

Deep navy on grey is nice handsome choice. Personally I would desaturate it slightly but that's just me being nit picky.

As much as I'm very eager to try VWD + bridges out (esp with DS) I totally get the challenges (and your love for the babies) so take your time!