Another approach might be is to use the photos you have to taken of your wife to re-texture an existing 3D model such as one of the DAZ Studio figures. The advantage to this would be that you would then have a 3D model of your wife that you could pose and dress. Using software that takes photos and creates a 3D mesh will work but will result in a static model stuck in the same pose that the photos depicted.

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