Ya'll have been a great help, I took all of ya'lls advice and tried settings suggested (except for sub-d, machine won't do it). I rendered for 13 hours and it was at only 40% done. I've got things to do on the computer so I just canceled the render and I'll start up again later. This is what I got so far:

on the max samples I've got 15000, is that to high? also on max time I have it to 0 so it would render till complete, it think that was a mistake....LOL