The Conform mechanism is just too unreliable for me.

And too unrealistic for my liking, particularly pants and skirts.

So, this is where we've come over the years: many still prefer the "ease-of-use" of conforming cloth.

Fair enough.

I'm lazy, and prefer letting the computer do all the hard yards of actually letting cloth drape on a figure, as it does in real life. So, what I've been doing is using Poser in its name-sake role: to pose figures, and (roughly) pose the cloth. Then, I bring that figure and cloth into Blender, and let it finish (finesse) the job. Blender drapes like nobody's business: it has tons of parameter settings for ... you name it. And just like with the cloth room, once you get your head around it, it's slick as owl-poo to use.

Monterey/Mint21.x/Win10 - Blender3.x - PP11.3(cm) - Musescore3.6.2

Wir sind gewohnt, daß die Menschen verhöhnen was sie nicht verstehen
[it is clear that humans have contempt for that which they do not understand] 

Metaphor of Chooks