If it's any consolation my friend, my husband had bladder cancer that spread to his prostate and was stage four, had chemo (and took it like a champ), had surgery and was back to work in 6 months. That was nearly 5 years ago now and he's still kicking. Doc said he could live for another 40 years. LOL.

Keep that positive attitude - it makes all the difference :) I'll keep you in my prayers.

Laurie