JohnDoe asked " I dunno if I'm asking that right, but it took me a very long time to get the look that I wanted."

Hmmm ... in that case I think maybe the quickest thing to do is just re-inject the La Femme 1R1 base body morphs and face morphs into your existing character. That should add the new morphs (some hand morphs, some teeth morphs, and the underarm morphs) to your existing character.

Save your scene first before you add the injections. Just in case. But that should give you what you're looking for. If not let me know and I will investigate further.