I'm sorry, but crying poor mouth just doesn't work. La Femme was free. PE was free. Miki4 was even free for a time. There'a all kinds of free clothing for all those figures you can experiment with if you don't want to model your own. No one is asking you to spend money. You cannot make something work if you don't understand the basics. And until you turn loose, even for a minute, of your everloving old technology and learn how to use the tools you want to use, there's just no hope for you to learn to do what you want to do.