Yup, my bad... Object menu it is. Good thing I wasn't teachin' absolute beginners ;)

As for the sideways "focus", I find this approximates it rather well, but if you wish to exaggerate it just bring the target in closer (zTran; not all the way to cross-eyedness, but enough to break the "thousand mile stare").

Glad to have helped :)

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