The legs are definitely crossed. How would scaling affect things? Are you saying I should reduce the size of everything? That would be possible for everything save her shoes. For some reason, there was no parameter to scale down her shoes. Not even in the hidden parameter menu. Easily fixed. That model has more shoes than me.

One thing. In the final crossed leg pose above. Will I need to be certain that the cloth is not touching the model in the final pose as well? I won't be draping as I want a snug fit that befits a pencil skirt. I am thinking from the advice above, that the skirt will stop a micron above her skin. Soooo does the cloth ever touch the skin a simulation?