Regarding getting the scale right between Blender and Poser. I mentioned in an earlier post that if you export a base figure from Poser as an obj file it will assist in getting the relative scale correct of all the objects in your scene, but it also works in exporting from Blender to Poser.

When you export the base figure from Poser, leave the export scale percentage at the default 100%. When you import that obj file into Blender leave it at the scale it imported at. Now scale your Blender scene to the correct size relative to the base figure. When you export out of Blender again make sure that the export scale stays at the default 100%. Now when you import the Blender obj models into Poser they will be at the correct scale within Poser.

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