Well I got as far as the 'big-assed' animated gif. When i seen the dimensions for it, then realized it was an animated gif, i just left and came back here. I don't know too many folks that would wait long for a page to load before they went someplace else.
Also I see that fauve mentioned that it was going to be a pay site, (I guess fauve hung around long enough for it to load). Well meaning this in the nicest possible way, your layout, at least what I did see before leaving, was rather simplistic to the extreme. From the text and horizontal rules that I did see, you are seriously lacking content and design. You might want to go to one of the various sites that deal with helping beginners in the basics of good web page design. One of the very first things that a lot of them will tell you is NOT to have large animated gifs. It is a major turn-off to surfers. At least I didn't get any of those pop-up windows.
Don't be discouraged by my words here. I urge you to try new designs and new layouts. With a little practice, and some patience, I'm sure, in time, you will be able to create a site that is both surfer freindly, and more mature,(for lack of a better word, no pun intended).
Should you need any leads to web sites that offer decent instructions to the art of web site design, please don't hesitate to contact me. I will help you all I can.

Ciao