I agree more screen shots may help us see what's going on, maybe a predraped shot of the item you're draping and settings for it.

For the hair room, don't forget that you need to turn on collisions for the scene as well as set them for each item you want the hair to collide with.

For the scene:

For the figure:

And for the hair:

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