wow! I wasn't expecting this amount of interest in my silly post, thanks peeps. i have notes to take it seems. 

anyhow I thought about it and I think it's better if i just post the link to the comic page, so people can see what im talking about. (hopefully its not breaking rules) but it's not posting the pics on here so dont click the link if you dont want to see k4 kids in the bath (it only shows their shoulders up)

https://thediaryofcassandrablack.thecomicseries.com/comics/18#comment-3850907

it seems i have some reading to do. thanks for the advice peeps.