I've seen a fog prop at a site that I think is called "Space Stories" and I think the guys name is Anthony Appleyard but that's just from memory. You should be able to find it by searching the members list and checking his free stuff and site. The wave deformer probably works like magnets - you have to go to their properties and tell them which objects you want them to affect.

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