Haven't been on line for about a day and a half due to pc probs, so a bit late here, but ironic, because today would have been my Mum's birthday, only I lost her last year. I hadn't seen her for several years, but at least I am eternally grateful my brother phoned me to let me know a week before, so I did get a chance to see her again, and it was just like I had seen her only the day before, no recriminations or anything. So as has been said Mums do know, and love you regardless. My keyboard may never recover from the tears as I type this but remember to remember the goodtimes, That's important. Big hugs and loads of them

The greatest part of wisdom is learning to develop  the ineffable genius of extracting the "neither here nor there" out of any situation...."