congrats on your entry into the wonderful world of Grandparenthood. Have you received your official manual update yet? Pay particular attention to the "Getting Revenge on your Child" section, it's got some great ideas. (My favorite is the one where you teach the grandkids all those really horrible noises that drove you nuts as a parent - you know, the razzberry, armpit music, etc.) Kate (who has 7 years of Gramma experience and 3 grandkids to practice on...muahahahahahaaaa)